I chose not to blog about the whole situation with Tila Tequila and Shawne Merriman situation on Miss Jia dot com simply b/c I really get tired of reading about all the patterns of Hollywood. One person gets a sex tape, several of ‘em get one…one person has dirty pics “leaked,” several of them leak some…one person gets the sides of their head shaved off…everybody gets one. And the latest trend is…one chick gets mollywopped by some nigga…you fill in the rest.

I, personally, don’t know what went down between the two but what I DO know is that when I woke up to find out about the news, I read some of the comments (under the trending topics of Twitter) only to find that Shawne was being convicted before ANYBODY knew the whole story. Tila didn’t tweet about it and neither did Shawne. Later, TMZ released an ‘exclusive’ from Shawne’s people that basically stated that he didn’t choke her…he tried to keep her from leaving b/c she had been drinking. I am not siding with him and calling HER a liar, but I’m also not going to condemn him before I know what really popped off.

The thing that pisses me off most with people where domestic situations are concerned is we immediately fly off a handle, especially if it lends negativity to the MALE involved. Now, just to show that I’m not perfect…I’ve done that before too. But in the one situation that I felt compelled to speak on, there were pictures that told part of the story on what went down. In THIS case, we’re only reading words and ‘accounts.’ Not quite the same.

Sorry but I aint that much of a fan of anyone to side with them in their bullshit, be it blatant or somewhat hidden. I’m a TI fan until the day I die but that nigga was wrong in what he did. Period. People kill me allowing celebrity (be it pseudo or otherwise) to blind them to common sense and facts. When more details surface pointing one way or the other, I MAY write about it or I may not. Just depends on how much attention whoring I feel like lending to the world.

And FYI: unlike many, I don’t blog to align myself with celebrities. I blog b/c I have something to say and people either agree or disagree with it. But at the end of the day, my goal is not to align myself with celebrities so hardcore that I can no longer state MY opinion. Fuck that…if it’s that serious, I have a nice little server bill that these celebs can pay on my behalf every month. That may help in getting me to possibly see shit YOUR way.