I haven’t written anything on my personal blog in a hot second. No real reason…just haven’t.

I have been so busy, kinda.

Alright, someone left a comment that I won’t post in its entirety but I will say that people really should learn to accept and understand that everybody’s idea of success and happiness don’t lie in the same things. For the record, blogging is something that I simply do as a hobby and it’s a hobby that just so happens to make me money. On the flip side, I am also a full time college student majoring in criminal justice (focus is criminal investigations and a minor in cyber crimes). Just because I don’t continuously speak aloud the things that I do doesn’t mean that I don’t do them. I don’t judge anyone for what their choices are in careers because at the end of the day, you have to ultimately do what makes you happy. But what makes you happy does NOT make you better than anyone else. Just because you have a plan for what you think one should do with their life doesn’t mean that they should follow it…nor does it mean that, if they choose to do something that’s opposite of what you expect, that they’re ‘wasting’ time. I don’t make it a point to mock, talk about or insult people who choose to go to law school…who choose to do hair…who choose to slide down a pole. The expectation is that some of you learn to return the favor. Just know that as long as “I” am happy, it’s alright.

Let’s see…so I am officially back in Atlanta. I couldn’t be happier. North Carolina just isn’t the place for me. Although I miss being able to see my family every other second, they’re only a phone call away.

Speaking of North Carolina…during the summer of 2009, I began seeing somebody who INITIALLY was just a ‘breezy’ for me. Eventually, that breezy-ish relationship turned into a “let’s try and be more serious” type thing. Well, long story short, the situation ended because I felt that, at times, he was being stubborn and spoiled. I couldn’t deal. It was over. I wasn’t “hurt” by it but I was a little bothered because for once I felt as though I had a closeness in North Carolina that I hadn’t felt since my last…”situation” in Georgia. Anyway, he reconnected with me and although I was genuinely happy that he thought of me, I can’t help but to remember some of the shit that caused it to be over in the first place. Forgiving? Yes. Forgetful? Nope.

It’s a brand new year…2010. I hope that everyone has regrouped and will work hard at making this year better than the last…or the one before that. Whatever you choose to do, be it finishing up on a college degree, starting your own business, getting closer to your faith or becoming more healthy, just make it work for you. No one person’s plan is greater than the other…but the drive and willingness to execute is what makes one great.

Be easy everybody!