Soo, it’s like….5 in the morning. I SHOULD be sleeping right now b/c at about 8, I’m going to be heading to NC to visit my family. My ‘baby’ sister (who’s not such a baby anymore) turned 27 on the 6th. I haven’t seen my fam since Thanksgiving LAST year. SO freakin’ trifling. But my parents hit me up and said that they want to see me AND that they’re buying me a NICE brand new gift! So yeaaaaaa, I’d say it’s time to make that trip!

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How many of you are willing to admit your own flaws? I know that I’ve talked about mine several times on the blog. I think that the emphasis on your flaws is the best thing to help you realize what you need to do change them.

Although I usually don’t like admitting to my parents that they were right about something, as an adult, I’ve found that almost everything that they told me way back when (and I didn’t understand) has been nothing but truth.

Case in point? You can’t trust everybody….

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Alright, so this ‘rant’ is totally a response to the goings on in a Facebook group that I’m a part of. The group is private so don’t try to find it or ask me what the name of the group is. Nonetheless, the group itself consists of men and women, 25 and up, who talk about everything from relationships to children to sex and bullshit. There’s a member of the group who seems to get ‘read’ by a (former) member of the group b/c she is an online (nude) model and works in a strip club (but not as a dancer) but still manages to have a good head on her shoulders. The problem? Any time this one member felt the need to come at her neck, one of the things that was ALWAYS said was, “Your father must’ve been MIA,” “You weren’t hugged as a child by your father,” “Your father had to have fucked up big time for you to be the way you are.”

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Have any of you ever felt that there were certain undesirable traits about yourself that you need to overcome but couldn’t quite figure out how?

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So I’m speaking with a (male) friend of mine via text and he asks me a simple question:

I paused for a second and right before I was about to type “no,” I had to think back to my own scandal. I responded with “I HAVE but…..”

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My year long lease is officially up and I’ve started the task of looking for another place. I don’t know about any of you but now when I’m looking, I have somewhat of a check list of things that I’d “like” to have in my home. But as I was browsing places to live and checking off the ones that didn’t meet my expectations, it made me think back to a time when I didn’t even have the option…especially since I was living in my car.

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